1 When you sit down for a meal with a ruler, look carefully at what is placed before you, 2 and cut down if you have a big appetite. 3 Don't be greedy for his fancy food, for it's offered with deceptive motives. 4 Don't wear yourself out trying to get rich—be wise enough not to bother! 5 It disappears in the blink of an eye, suddenly growing wings and flying off into the sky like an eagle. 6 Don't accept meal invitations from miserly people; don't be greedy for their fancy food, 7 for what they're thinking inside is what they really are. They say, “Come on, eat and drink!”—but in their minds they don't really care about you. 8 You'll vomit up the little pieces you've eaten, and your kind words of appreciation will be wasted. 9 Don't talk to stupid people because they'll ridicule your wise words. 10 Don't move ancient boundary markers, and don't encroach on fields belonging to orphans, 11 for their Protector is powerful and he will plead their case against you. 12 Focus your mind on instruction; listen intently to words of knowledge. 13 Don't keep from disciplining your children—a beating won't kill them. 14 If you use physical correction you can save them from death. 15 My son, if you think wisely then I'll be happy; 16 I'll be delighted when you say what's right. 17 Don't think enviously of sinners, but always remember to honor the Lord, 18 for there's definitely a future for you, and your hope will not be crushed. 19 Pay attention, my son, and be wise; make sure your mind concentrates on following the right way. 20 Don't join in with people who drink too much wine or who stuff themselves with meat. 21 For people who get drunk and overeat lose all they've got, and they spend so much time dozing that all they have left to wear is rags. 22 Pay attention to your father, and don't disregard your mother when she's old. 23 Invest in truth—and don't sell it! Invest in wisdom, instruction, and understanding. 24 Children who do right make their fathers very happy; a wise son brings joy to his father. 25 Make your father and mother happy; bring joy to her who gave birth to you. 26 My son, give me your undivided attention, and cheerfully follow my example. 27 A prostitute is like being trapped in a pit; an immoral woman is like getting stuck a narrow well, 28 Like a robber, she lies in wait ready to ambush men and make more of them unfaithful to their wives. 29 Who's in trouble? Who's in pain? Who's arguing? Who's complaining? Who's injured for no reason? Who's got bloodshot eyes? 30 —those who spend a long time drinking wine, those who are always trying some new cocktail. 31 Don't let the look of wine tempt you—how red it is, how it sparkles in the cup, how smooth it feels as it goes down. 32 In the end it bites like a serpent, it stings like a snake. 33 You'll hallucinate, seeing strange things, and your confused mind will make you say all kinds of craziness. 34 You'll stumble around like you're on the rolling ocean, you'll be tossed about like someone lying down at the top of a ship's mast, saying, 35 “People punched me, but it didn't hurt me; they beat me, but I didn't feel a thing. I've got to get up because I need another drink.”
Proverbs 23 Free Bible Version
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- 1 Genesis 43:32–34; Jude 12
- 2 Philippians 3:19; Matthew 18:8–9; 1 Corinthians 9:27
- 3 Proverbs 23:6; Psalm 141:4; Luke 21:34; Ephesians 4:22; Daniel 1:8
- 4 Hebrews 13:5; Proverbs 28:20; 1 Timothy 6:8–10; Matthew 6:19; Proverbs 3:5
- 5 Proverbs 27:24; 1 John 2:16; Matthew 6:19; James 5:1–2; 1 Timothy 6:17
- 6 Psalm 141:4; Proverbs 23:3; Daniel 1:8–10; Deuteronomy 15:9; Matthew 20:15
- 7 Psalm 12:2; Psalm 55:21; Judges 16:15; Matthew 9:3–4; Luke 11:37–54
- 9 Proverbs 9:7–8; Matthew 7:6; Proverbs 26:4–5; Proverbs 1:7; Acts 13:45–46
- 10 Zechariah 7:10; Proverbs 22:28; Jeremiah 22:3; Deuteronomy 27:17; James 1:27
- 11 Proverbs 22:23; Job 19:25; Exodus 22:22–24; Deuteronomy 27:19; Psalm 12:5
- 12 Proverbs 5:1–2; Proverbs 2:2–6; Proverbs 23:19; James 1:21–25; Ezekiel 33:31
- 13 Proverbs 13:24; Proverbs 29:15; Proverbs 19:18; Proverbs 29:17
- 14 1 Corinthians 5:5; Proverbs 22:15; 1 Corinthians 11:32
- 15 Proverbs 23:24–25; 2 John 4; Zephaniah 3:17; 3 John 3–4; Proverbs 29:3
- 16 Proverbs 8:6; Ephesians 5:4; James 3:2; Ephesians 4:29; Colossians 4:4
- 17 Proverbs 28:14; 2 Corinthians 7:1; Proverbs 15:16; 1 Peter 1:17; Ecclesiastes 5:7
- 18 Hebrews 10:35; Jeremiah 29:11; Psalm 9:18; Proverbs 24:14; Philippians 1:20
- 19 Proverbs 23:26; Proverbs 23:12; Proverbs 4:10–23; Proverbs 6:6; Proverbs 9:6
- 20 Luke 21:34; Ephesians 5:18; Isaiah 5:22; Romans 13:13; Isaiah 5:11
- 21 Proverbs 21:17; Philippians 3:19; Proverbs 19:15; Deuteronomy 21:20; Galatians 5:21
- 22 Proverbs 30:17; Proverbs 1:8; John 19:26–27; Proverbs 6:20; Ephesians 6:1–2
- 23 Proverbs 18:15; Matthew 13:44; Psalm 119:72; Proverbs 16:16; Isaiah 55:1
- 24 Proverbs 10:1; Proverbs 15:20; Proverbs 23:15–16; Proverbs 29:3; Philemon 20
- 25 Proverbs 17:25; Luke 1:58; Luke 11:27–28; 1 Chronicles 4:9–10; Luke 1:40–47
- 26 Psalm 119:2; Psalm 119:9–11; Deuteronomy 6:5; Matthew 10:37–38; Proverbs 4:25–27
- 27 Proverbs 22:14
- 28 Ecclesiastes 7:26; Proverbs 7:12; 1 Corinthians 10:8; Hosea 4:11; Proverbs 22:14
- 29 Ephesians 5:18; 1 Samuel 25:36–37; Isaiah 5:11; Isaiah 5:22; 2 Samuel 13:28
- 30 Ephesians 5:18; Isaiah 5:11; Proverbs 20:1; Proverbs 9:2; Amos 6:6
- 31 1 John 2:16; Psalm 119:37; 2 Samuel 11:2; Proverbs 6:25; Mark 9:47
- 32 Isaiah 28:7–8; Isaiah 28:3; Luke 16:25–26; Exodus 7:12; Amos 5:19
- 33 Jude 12–13; Proverbs 31:5; Proverbs 2:12; Hosea 7:5; Genesis 19:32–38
- 34 1 Thessalonians 5:2–7; 1 Kings 16:9; Luke 21:34; Luke 17:27–29; Matthew 24:38
- 35 Jeremiah 5:3; Isaiah 56:12; 1 Corinthians 15:32–34; 2 Peter 2:22; Proverbs 26:11
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